Inserting Your Dildo
Some Important Dos and Don’ts
Dildos are designed, and impeccably so, for penetrative activities. Whether you’re going to be inserting your dildo vaginally or anally, there are some precautions to take and tips to keep in mind to ensure that your dildo play is safe and pleasurable. While these tips are geared toward newcomers to dildo play, even experienced dildo enthusiasts can use a refresher from now and then.
Always use a generous amount of lubricant, whether you’re going to be using your dildo for anal or vaginal play. Many dildo users are consistent in lubricating their dildos for anal play, cognizant that the rectum doesn’t generate its own natural lubrication, without using a proper amount of lubricant or any lubricant at all for vaginal penetration. Lubricating your dildo before any insertion is crucial to making penetration painless. Both the vagina and anus are tender, sensitive spots, and you don’t want any pain to result from dildo insertion.
When inserting your dildo, perform the insertion gradually. This will give you the most pleasure from your dildo, particularly if it’s adorned with detailed veins or other protrusions that give additional stimulation. Once it’s comfortably inserted and the lubrication is making the dildo glide in and out smoothly, then you can work the dildo with a thrusting motion that’s arousing for you. Never begin penetrative dildo play by shoving the dildo its full length into your anus or vagina. That’s a recipe for injury, and it’s unlikely that any sensations you experience will be arousing. If you’re engaging in dildo play with a partner, work out a safe word. If you experience any discomfort whatsoever during dildo play, cease at once. Pain’s the signal that something’s wrong and you don’t want to risk injury via continued dildo penetration.
Dildo play is extremely pleasurable and unlocks a bevy of sensual possibilities, whether you use your small dildo alone or with a partner. There’s still a risk of injury if you’re not careful, so take the aforementioned tips to heart. Play safe, play smart, and enjoy the sensual thrills that your dildo provides.
